What we have been up too

Honestly not a lot.... We are still waiting for our kids.... and waiting and waiting........ We are really hoping that we will have them before Christmas, again hoping. We went to Spokane this last weekend and got to see Joe Baptize Cordin that was really cool Congrats!!! And we went to A friends 50th Birthday party and McQ's. Tons of fun. We got to play some pool and I even won a game, legitly, Cale didn't even let me win or nothing. Wish there was sompleace here we could go to play here. We are staying here for thanksgiving, my family in the early afternoon and Cales dad in the later afternoon/evening. Got an email from his mom today telling us about her plans so it looks like she's doing her own thing. No problem there. Haven't had any respite other than our last one at the beginning of the month we ended up with him for an extra day cause everyone there was sick. Wasn't too much problem. He only threw one fit and that was cause he wanted a snack before bed and he was told no, he is on a strict eating schedule. Cale literally had to physically pick him up and lie him in his bed. He takes meds right before bed and has to lie down immeaditely. Man did he cry you would have thought his life was over. Oh well... Thats why we have doors and can close them right..lol. apparently the state of Wa budget crisis is worse than originally thought. Cale said they had an emergency meeting yesterday and were actually asking for volunteers to get laid off. They have to let 36 people go from Region 2 (our region). He has about 4-5 people below him and right now its the temp postions that are giong to go first, Thankfully his boss knew this was comming and gmade him permenant, which doesn't mean he is safe, it just means that he wont be the first to go. So right now we are praying he gets to keep his job other wise we are SOL, Though since this is happening we have decided that we will be putting his loans into forbearance for another year. We just can't afford to have those hanging over our heads while his job is so unstable. If something happens we need to have a chunk in our our savings to live on for awhile if we have to. We think his job is safe, but we are ptuuing out feelers just to see what else is out there just in case. you know the whole Hope for the best plan for the worst thing.